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Lilies: elegance that lasts two weeks

The lily is the flower of elegant bouquets, of Mother’s Day in Argentina and of farewell wreaths. What it means, how long it lasts and an important warning if you have a cat.

A white and pink lily, the flower of Mother’s Day in Argentina and of sympathy bouquets
Photo: Derek Ramsey (Ram-Man) · Chanticleer Garden · CC BY-SA 3.0
Scientific name
Lilium spp.the Madonna lily is Lilium candidum
Season
All yeargreenhouse-grown; outdoors in summer
Meaning
Purity and elegancealso respect
Vase life
10 to 14 daysthe buds open in turns

What it means to give lilies

The lily conveys purity, elegance and respect. It is a large, trumpet- or star-shaped flower that fills a room with just a few stems. Depending on the color:

  • White: peace, purity and remembrance. It is the classic Madonna lily of weddings and sympathy bouquets.
  • Pink: affection and admiration; a popular choice for Mother’s Day.
  • Orange and yellow: energy, joy and gratitude.
  • Red: passion, in romantic bouquets that want to move beyond the rose.

There are two big groups: Oriental lilies, with huge flowers and an intense scent, and Asiatic lilies, smaller and with hardly any scent. If the person is sensitive to smells or the bouquet is going to a small room, ask for Asiatic ones.

When lilies are given

DateWhat is celebrated and whyFlowerColorWhere
3rd Sunday of OctoberMother’s Day

Argentina celebrates mothers in spring, on the third Sunday of October, so it coincides with the best flower season of the southern hemisphere.

Roses and liliesPinkArgentina
every yearMother’s Day (Día de las Madres)

In Mexico it has been a fixed date since 1922, when the newspaper Excélsior promoted the celebration. Serenade, family lunch and a bouquet that can’t be missing.

Roses and carnationsPinkMexico, Guatemala and El Salvador

In Argentina, Mother’s Day falls on the third Sunday of October, in the middle of the southern spring, and bouquets of roses and lilies are the best sellers. Lilies are also common for anniversaries, openings and formal visits.

Lily season

Almost all florist lilies are greenhouse-grown, so they can be found all year round. According to the seasonal table, these are the months when they are most plentiful:

Important warning: toxic to cats

Every part of the lily is toxic to cats: the petals, the leaves, the pollen and even the vase water. A small amount, such as licking pollen that has fallen on their fur, is enough to cause kidney failure that can be fatal. If there’s a cat in the home the bouquet is going to, choose roses, sunflowers or tulips. If you think a cat has touched a lily, call the vet right away.

How to care for a bouquet of lilies

  1. Buy stems with closed buds and one or two starting to open: they will open in turns over two weeks.
  2. Remove the anthers as soon as the flower opens, using a tissue. The pollen stains terribly and the flower lasts longer too.
  3. Cut the stem at an angle and remove the lower leaves.
  4. Clean water every two or three days, away from direct sun.
  5. Remove spent flowers from the stem so the energy goes to the new buds.

If a pollen stain gets on your clothes, don’t rub it or wet it: lift it off with sticky tape and leave the garment in the sun.

Remind me 3 days before

Download the reminder and open it with your phone’s calendar: it repeats every year and alerts you three days before, so you have time to order the bouquet.

Frequently asked questions

What does it mean to give lilies?

Purity, elegance and respect. White is associated with peace and remembrance; pink with affection and admiration; orange with energy.

What is the difference between a lily and a Madonna lily?

The Madonna lily (azucena in Spanish) is a specific species of lily, Lilium candidum, white and very fragrant. In practice, many Spanish-speaking florists call any white lily an azucena.

Are lilies toxic to cats?

Yes. Every part of the lily, including the pollen and the vase water, can cause severe kidney failure in cats. If you have a cat, it’s better to choose another flower.

How do you remove lily pollen?

Pull off the anthers (the orange tips of the stamens) with a tissue as soon as the flower opens. That way it won’t stain clothes or tablecloths and the flower lasts longer.

Are lilies given at funerals?

Yes, the white lily is one of the most common flowers in wreaths and sympathy bouquets, along with the chrysanthemum and the white rose.

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